2012年12月16日日曜日

子供を育てる環境。親は環境を選ぶ方法もある。学校任せは駄目だろ。アメリカ人の友達がいい事言ってるぞ


今日のアメリカは、小学校での無差別射殺事件の話題でショックを受けてました。


そんな中、私の友人が書いていた投稿をご紹介します。


日本が今後、アメリカ社会みたいになって行かないことを祈るのみです。


子供たちは最初から悪魔じゃないよ。


やはり、子供たちを守るのは、親の手にかかってます。

親が子供たちをまともに育てるためには、そういうことができる社会も必要です。

あなたは今日、どこの政党に投票しましたか?

自民党保守の群馬県の大人たちは、今までどおり、福田ブランドや中曽根ブランドに期待して投票したんでしょうか?




Mike Huckabee: "We ask why there is violence in our schools, but we’ve systematically removed God from our schools."


No Mike, Its because we've systematically removed both parents from the home so no one is raising our kids. 

Both parents have to work to make a living and support a family, leaving the kids at home to be "taught" by video games and TV shows. 

We cant remove all the evil from our society, but we CAN do a much better job of raising our kids if employers will start paying workers enoughmoney that one parent can stay home to raise the kids. 

Easy enough to say we had prayer in school back in the 50s and this didnt happen, but what we ALSO had in the 50s was Single earners and a stay at home parent! 

Stay home and raise you kids and you can teach them all the religion youwant. 

But if you want to leave the religious teachings to the schools, your doing parenting WRONG!




この後に、友達たちから様々なコメントが寄せられています。
アメリカ人だけじゃないです。イギリス人も。



  • Steve You're right, there are a lot problems out there that stand to be corrected, yes we need gun control, but what we should do right now is find a better way to protect our wonderful kids.
    Yesterday at 10:04am · Edited · Like
    Bryan  In South Carolina every school has a cop on duty. OF course, if the first one thekid shoots is the cop, then he has access to another gun, but its an attempt at dealing with the problem. And of course, it costs taxpayer money to provide cops in schools.
    Yesterday at 9:37am · Like · 1

    Steve You got it.
    Yesterday at 9:37am · Like

    Steve That's one tax I'll gladly pay.
    Yesterday at 9:39am · Like

    Steve  We need to install better security systems in every school.
    Yesterday at 9:45am · Like

    Bryan OF course, we cant afford to pay a union cop to hang around the school all day, so they will contract it out to a security company (prolly owned by a senators brother-in-law) who will pay them minimum wage, no benefits, and make them pay for their own ...See More
    Yesterday at 9:49am · Like · 2

    SteveThat's another issue for sure, clearly something has to done though, we connot continue down this path.
    Yesterday at 10:02am · Like

    Jay Hey Mike, if your god is so impotent that he can't protect kids in school just because we won't MAKE them pray, then what's the fucking point of believing in him at all?
    Yesterday at 12:42pm · Like

    Steve  My heart goes out tonight to all the people who lost family and friends today in Newtown Ct.
    Yesterday at 1:53pm · Like

    Susan  Bryan - I agree with this"what we ALSO had in the 50s was Single earners and a stay at home parent" and if you recall it was NOT because Dad belonged to a union and was paid so well - it was because our parents sacrificed the unnecessary things so Mom ...See More
    20 hours ago · Like · 1

    Prince We also had just come out of the second world war. I hope those alive today, who had elderly relatives alive during that time, took the time to talk to them. Lots of people died.
    20 hours ago · Like · 1
    Bryan Poverty is also one the biggest contributors to the high divorce rate. There are MILLIONS ofpeople who dont have the brains, skills and talents our dad had, and are never going to rise above hourly wage earner, That doesnt mean they are worth less and...See More
    19 hours ago · Like · 1

    SteveThere are many people out there today, me included, that come from divorced families that do just fine. There are a lot of people that are low income earners, that are exploited til cows come home, every day of their life’s, none of these people usually go out killing. No, we are talking about a lethal dose of both 
    Anger and mental illness.
    18 hours ago · Like

    Jay  Bryan, I've been in management, and it's not as easy as you like to portray it. At least for goodmanagers, the work can be harder than physical labor. There were a lot of days I came home wiped out from sitting in front of the computer. Plus dealing with smart-asses who think you do nothing but sit on your ass all day thinking of ways to screw them over. Or the idiots who don't understand why they have to come into work on time EVERY day. Or the ones who take their paychecks on Friday morning and don't come back to work until Monday morning. Believe me, there are jackasses at every level
     of labor and management.
    17 hours ago · Like · 2

    Kumiko Bryan, can I introduce your posting on my blog? thank you!
    35 minutes ago · Like

    Prince Jay, i think the point wasn't that management work was easy...It was that the pay is not proportionate. Management shouldnt be paid more than the hard manual labour jobs.
    2 minutes ago · Like

    Kumiko I think the point is our choice of our life, although our social surrounding also important when we raise children,yes. and we can choose the way.
    a few seconds ago · Like


    あたし書いてきました。ポイントは、学校のシステムうんぬんよりも、親の人生の選択じゃないでしょうか?

    勿論、社会的な環境は大切です。

    だけど、親が我が子を育てる環境を選ぶことは可能です。

    違うかなぁ・・・?


    そりゃ、今の日本で、今までと同じくらいのレベルの生活をしようとか思ったら無理だと思いますよ。


    でも、しょっちゅう外食してみたり、飲みに行ったり、女遊びしたり、タバコ吸ったり、パチンコに明け暮れたり、そんなに派手で無駄な暮らし、子供を育てるうえで、必要ですか?


    も一つ追加コメント入りました。


    まぁ、当たり前のことですけど。

    子供に親の信仰を家庭でしっかり教育すべきだと言ってみたところで、宗教にコントロールされちゃ意味はない。


    親は自分自身が正しいと思うことを、子供たちに家庭でしっかり教育しないとです。


    家庭は大切です。

    結局のところ、学校や国に期待しすぎたところで、無駄なんだと思います。


    親が我が子を護る、これはもう全世界共通の認識なんですね。



    • Bryan There never WAS any god in the world. And that is a big part of the problem. 

      Religion is used to control people. 

      Dont let them control you. 

      Do what you have to, even if it means fighting for whats right!
      10 hours ago · Unlike · 2

      Samuel The idea of god is beyond our ability to perceive. 

      Many religions have lost their true meaning but that doesn't discount a higher power IMO






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